Understanding Self-Esteem In Kids & Teens.

Signs of low self-esteem can vary, but may include:

  • Negative self-talk such as “I’m not good enough”
  • Avoiding new activities for fear of failure
  • Difficulty accepting compliments
  • Comparing themselves to others in a harsh way
  • Sensitivity to criticism or setbacks

Low self-esteem is not a personality trait that children are “stuck with.” It’s something that can be improved with guidance, encouragement and evidence-based strategies.

Our Approach To Supporting Kids & Teens With Low Self-Esteem.

At Unbound Minds, we focus on helping children recognise their strengths and practise new ways of thinking and acting that build confidence.

Support can include:

  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT): Helps kids challenge unhelpful thoughts and replace them with more balanced, supportive ones.
  • Strengths-Based Identity Work: Encourages children to see their abilities and achievements as part of who they are.
  • Social Skills Development: Supports positive peer interactions and stronger friendships.
  • Resilience and Coping Strategies: Teaches kids how to bounce back from setbacks and feel capable in new situations.
  • Family Coaching: Equips parents with ways to reinforce confidence-building strategies at home.

We work closely with families and, where helpful, schools, to make sure the progress made in therapy is supported in daily life.

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Helpful Answers For Parents.

A healthy sense of self-esteem helps children feel capable, resilient, and willing to take on challenges. When self-esteem is low, children may avoid new experiences, become self-critical, or withdraw from friends and family. At Unbound Minds, we support children in building a positive self-image and help parents encourage confidence at home and school.

How does Unbound Minds support children with low self-esteem?

We use evidence-based strategies to help children recognise their strengths, challenge negative self-talk, and build confidence through small, achievable steps. Therapy is designed to create a safe space where children can feel proud of their progress.

Do you work with parents as part of the process?

Yes. We guide parents in reinforcing self-esteem at home - from celebrating effort, not just outcomes, to modelling positive self-talk. This ensures children feel supported consistently across home, school, and therapy.

What are some signs my child might be struggling with self-esteem?

Children with low self-esteem may avoid trying new things, compare themselves negatively to others, or become overly sensitive to mistakes. They might also show reluctance to speak up in class or participate in activities they once enjoyed.

How can I help my child feel more confident day to day?

Give them opportunities to succeed by setting tasks they can realistically achieve, then celebrate those successes. Encourage problem-solving rather than stepping in too quickly. We also provide parents with tailored strategies to nurture confidence in everyday situations.

Can self-esteem issues affect other areas of my child’s life?

Yes. Low self-esteem can influence friendships, school performance, and overall wellbeing. Supporting a child’s confidence not only helps them feel better about themselves but also builds resilience in the face of challenges.

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If your child is struggling with low self-esteem, early support can help them rediscover their confidence and sense of worth. We’re here to support your family.
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